When you are experiencing high levels of anxiety, you will start to see things develop that further substantiate your intense level of stress. In other words, if you are feeling anxious about something, you will see that situation as being negative and anxiety-causing. If you are constantly thinking about what is going to happen next, you will see the world as being full of negative situations.
If your beliefs prevent you from achieving your goals, then you can change them and manifest your dreams.
Write down your core beliefs and challenge all the negative ones. As you do this, you will realize that you have added a lot of negative-subjective emphasis to what is seemingly a one or two off incident.
For e.g. just because your two past relationships failed miserably, does not mean that you do are unlucky in love. It simply means that you came across two individuals who were not compatible with your views and expectations for a relationship. That is all…
When you start to observe your experiences with this kind of objectivity, you will find that you have 'acquired' these beliefs… from your friends and family, your culture, and your own self-talk.
So, if you have acquired these limiting negative beliefs, then you can also surely let them go and choose to acquire positive beliefs that will help you to accomplish your goals and live a happier life.
Once you start challenging your negative thoughts and start to actively change them, you will start seeing deep transformation. Soon you will see that your beliefs, which ultimately are nothing but deep core subconscious thoughts, will begin to reflect your new positive way of thinking. Soon, your new beliefs will become your new reality… a happier reality.