You may be finding that starting these last couple of weeks, you are finding it harder to maintain balance and cordiality in relationships and your interaction with other people such as our family, friends, coworkers and even just in general- people we meet casually during the day!!
What I mean by that is?? Let’s say you are buying your weekly groceries and usually you greet and chit chat with the teller as they ring up your items. But, you will find that for some ‘strange’ reason they are not as ‘friendly’ as they usually tend to be. They may seem to be in a little bit of an off mood and it is not as pleasant of an interaction for you as it usually tends to be…
What I mean by that is?? Let’s say you are buying your weekly groceries and usually you greet and chit chat with the teller as they ring up your items. But, you will find that for some ‘strange’ reason they are not as ‘friendly’ as they usually tend to be. They may seem to be in a little bit of an off mood and it is not as pleasant of an interaction for you as it usually tends to be…
Now, if you are following our usual behavior of conscious and aware observation then you will not react to it… BUT if not, it is very much possible that their standoffish behavior will upset you or make you angry. Then this anger will probably reflect in your own actions, which may further make that other person feel more upset towards you!! AND so on… this negative spiral continues…
Right now the energies are such that it is somewhere asking each one of us to reflect deeply into what we feel… deep within our heart- not just about the usual things like family, relationships, career, money and so on… but deep in our heart- what are we really feeling about our own self!!
Our self-view of who we are… what we truly believe… and most importantly, how are we adding value in this world? How are we being of service to our near and dear ones, our community and also the greater world at large??
From now, until mid-October, be very conscious and aware of your emotional state of mind. If you are feeling great, then really introspect and ask yourself- what is it that is making you feel good. And in case, you are feeling low, depressed or angry, then again reflect and ask yourself the real cause behind your thoughts, feelings and emotions.
Now, do not simply say- well I am feeling low because I miss this person or that I am feeling angry because this person was rude to me- probe and ask further questions to arrive at the deep, real reason.
Now, even though this person who is dear to you may not be around or that someone did behave in a rude manner with you… the reality is… if you are truly feeling complete and content within your own self, then you will not feel low. You will continue to do all these other things that you enjoy and the fact that this dear person is not around, will be more of a simple fact than something which is influencing your mood or emotions!! See what I mean??
Right now the energies are such that it is somewhere asking each one of us to reflect deeply into what we feel… deep within our heart- not just about the usual things like family, relationships, career, money and so on… but deep in our heart- what are we really feeling about our own self!!
Our self-view of who we are… what we truly believe… and most importantly, how are we adding value in this world? How are we being of service to our near and dear ones, our community and also the greater world at large??
From now, until mid-October, be very conscious and aware of your emotional state of mind. If you are feeling great, then really introspect and ask yourself- what is it that is making you feel good. And in case, you are feeling low, depressed or angry, then again reflect and ask yourself the real cause behind your thoughts, feelings and emotions.
Now, do not simply say- well I am feeling low because I miss this person or that I am feeling angry because this person was rude to me- probe and ask further questions to arrive at the deep, real reason.
Now, even though this person who is dear to you may not be around or that someone did behave in a rude manner with you… the reality is… if you are truly feeling complete and content within your own self, then you will not feel low. You will continue to do all these other things that you enjoy and the fact that this dear person is not around, will be more of a simple fact than something which is influencing your mood or emotions!! See what I mean??
Similarly, someone may have behaved in a rude way- but that just speaks about them?? Why are you reacting to it?? Is it because somewhere deep down you are questioning your own self-worth and being slighted by this person, just highlighted your own deep feelings of worthlessness??
As we know all the people we meet are always going to be at various levels in their evolution. So, make sure that you do not get ensnared into any unnecessary arguments or carry any ill-feelings towards anyone. Instead, utilize this time to reflect within and truly find out- why you are behaving, reacting the way that you are…
IF you do this, and to the extent that you are truly and deeply able to do this… it will help to pave the way to the wonderful success that the rest of this year and what 2022 and following years can bring into your life…
As we know all the people we meet are always going to be at various levels in their evolution. So, make sure that you do not get ensnared into any unnecessary arguments or carry any ill-feelings towards anyone. Instead, utilize this time to reflect within and truly find out- why you are behaving, reacting the way that you are…
IF you do this, and to the extent that you are truly and deeply able to do this… it will help to pave the way to the wonderful success that the rest of this year and what 2022 and following years can bring into your life…
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A Message For You, Guidance, Our World Today, Special Messages and Think On This
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A Message For You, Guidance, Our World Today, Special Messages and Think On This
Keywords and Tags:
#relationship #balancedrelationship #codependency #independent #conflictresolution #successinnewyear #avoidarguments #introspect #contemplation #reflect #emotions #feelings #gratitude #forgiveness #clemency #kindness #compassion #lawofattraction #walkingthepath #consciousliving #empowerment
