As people aspiring to live with conscious awareness, we are always striving to improve ourselves in micro-increments, this way we can incorporate positive change in our behavior without feeling the stressful aspect of undergoing that change!
One area of our life that probably has the most impact on how we feel and express is communication. Because of which, miscommunication, misunderstandings, arguments, all become part of day-to-day activities, particularly with those people with whom we interact on a close basis like our colleagues, family, and friends. But there are certain times when we find that such communication challenges abound!
One area of our life that probably has the most impact on how we feel and express is communication. Because of which, miscommunication, misunderstandings, arguments, all become part of day-to-day activities, particularly with those people with whom we interact on a close basis like our colleagues, family, and friends. But there are certain times when we find that such communication challenges abound!
During such stressful and high-pressure times, there could be lot of confusion, misunderstanding that result in arguments and finger-pointing. In such circumstances it is very easy to lose our cool and get angry at the other person or at the very least resent them for their egoistic behavior.
But the key is to not do so but observe- them and your own self!
However, and in what-so-ever manner a particular person is behaving or whatever they may be saying to you; can you see the divine essence within them and show them love and kindness all the same?
Think about it… the other person may not be on a path of aware and conscious living. If you, who are on this path and have developed some sensitivity, is feeling the anger and pressure, how much more would that other person be feeling!
In addition, they are probably seeing it as ‘all real’! Unlike you and I who have learned to distance ourselves to some degree from egoistic behaviors, this other person may not have learnt to do that and so may be experiencing everything as very grave, impactful, and part of their immediate reality!
So, learn to forgive and move on. If you need to retaliate to get your point across then surely do so. But without anger or aggression. Merely state what you need to say and do what you need to do but with love and kindness so there is no hint of your own ego in play!
You can do the same when past situations or people crop up in your life. These people may have hurt you or you may have felt anger and angst towards them in the past, still learn to forgive, all involved in that situation- these other people and your own self; so that you can leave the past behind and step into the present moment and walk towards a bright and beautiful future.
But the key is to not do so but observe- them and your own self!
However, and in what-so-ever manner a particular person is behaving or whatever they may be saying to you; can you see the divine essence within them and show them love and kindness all the same?
Think about it… the other person may not be on a path of aware and conscious living. If you, who are on this path and have developed some sensitivity, is feeling the anger and pressure, how much more would that other person be feeling!
In addition, they are probably seeing it as ‘all real’! Unlike you and I who have learned to distance ourselves to some degree from egoistic behaviors, this other person may not have learnt to do that and so may be experiencing everything as very grave, impactful, and part of their immediate reality!
So, learn to forgive and move on. If you need to retaliate to get your point across then surely do so. But without anger or aggression. Merely state what you need to say and do what you need to do but with love and kindness so there is no hint of your own ego in play!
You can do the same when past situations or people crop up in your life. These people may have hurt you or you may have felt anger and angst towards them in the past, still learn to forgive, all involved in that situation- these other people and your own self; so that you can leave the past behind and step into the present moment and walk towards a bright and beautiful future.
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Ascension, Conscious Living, Emotional Wellbeing, Our Path Our Journey , and Self Development
Keywords and Tags:
#miscommunication #communicationbreakdown #revistfrompast #pastmemories #walkingthepath #consciousliving #workingwithenergy #empowerment #quantumliving #spiritualjourney #divine #universalenergy #energymodulation
